| Thank God for the brother's referral and the wife's persistence. It paid off! I'm having problems that are partially solved, but the sore still lingers. I believe that the key is being able to forgive, even when not asked to, so as to dissolve the the pounding rock of anger and resentment. Thank God for your yearly marriage conferance. I am looking into starting a marriage ministries at my church. My prayers are with you.